Jeeze, 'I can't'?
At least he sat down though, and Ben obviously cares a lot. :)
Seems like he's in one of the more cultic JHW congregations. A proper cult will not allow you to socialize with former bonds who don't join you, in order to monopolize your intellectual and emotional space - which is what separates beneficial sharing of ideas (evangelism) with brainwashing.
Proper Christian churches (JHW break the Nicene Creed on many points on top of being cultists who monopolize minds, which is obviously an evil practice) have Diakonia as well as evangelism, the concept of helping and connecting to any sentient being without any ulterior motives. ^_^